The Role of Women in Medieval European Society

According to The Bible

 

A virtuous woman:

Proverbs
12:4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
31:12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
31:22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31:31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
31:20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
31:25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
31:26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
31:28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

 

An inferior person, a woman

Proverbs
31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
31:21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
31:23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
31:24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

 

EPISTLES OF ST PAUL

Ephesians
5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

The tasks expected of a woman

Proverbs

31:13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
31:14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
31:15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
31:16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
31:18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
31:19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

 

 

The Code of Chivalry and Women

The Ten Commandments of the Code of Chivalry

From Chivalry by Leon Gautier

  1. Thou shalt believe all that the Church teaches, and shalt observe all its directions.
  2. Thou shalt defend the Church.
  3. Thou shalt repect all weaknesses, and shalt constitute thyself the defender of them.
  4. Thou shalt love the country in the which thou wast born.
  5. Thou shalt not recoil before thine enemy.
  6. Thou shalt make war against the Infidel without cessation, and without mercy.
  7. Thou shalt perform scrupulously thy feudal duties, if they be not contrary to the laws of God.
  8. Thou shalt never lie, and shall remain faithful to thy pledged word.
  9. Thou shalt be generous, and give largess to everyone.
  10. Thou shalt be everywhere and always the champion of the Right and the Good against Injustice and Evil.

 

The Code of Chivalry

From the Rifts: England Supplement (abridged)

  1. Live to serve King and Country.
  2. Respect women.
  3. Be polite and attentive.
  4. Be respectful of host, women, and honor.
  5. Loyalty to country, King, honor, freedom, and the code of chivalry.
  6. Loyalty to one's friends and those who lay their trust in thee.

 

Rules of Courtly Love

The Twelve Chief Rules in Love (abridged)

From The Art of Courtly Love by Andreas Capellanus

  1. Thou shalt avoid avarice like the deadly pestilence and shalt embrace its opposite.
  2. Thou shalt keep thyself chaste for the sake of her whom thou lovest.
  3. Thou shalt not chose for thy love anyone whom a natural sense of shame forbids thee to marry.
  4. Being obedient in all things to the commands of ladies, thou shalt ever strive to ally thyself to the service of Love.
  5. In giving and receiving love's solaces let modesty be ever present.
  6. Thou shalt speak no evil.
  7. Thou shalt be in all things polite and courteous.
  8. It is not proper to love any woman whom one would be ashamed to seek to marry.
  9. The easy attainment of love makes it of little value: difficulty of attainment makes it prized.
  10. When a lover suddenly catches sight of his beloved his heart palpitates.
  11. Good character alone makes any man worthy of love.
  12. A true lover considers nothing good except what he thinks will please his beloved.
  13. Love can deny nothing to love.